Getting the things you want can take time and effort, but that shouldn’t matter if it’s important to you. Here are a few keys to making a success of yourself.
Hopefully, this will inspire you to tighten up your act and get your formal wear together.
Shoes can say a lot about a man, and I don’t just mean regarding his salary.
When you haven’t so much time to do your routine workout, it is still possible to be on track with your healthy body needs.
Instead, take all the pressure off of both of you.
You have to make the transformation. You have to understand the alpha mindset and display the characteristics of the man women are attracted to before you go trying any of these “can’t miss” techniques.
She’s pretty – deal w/ it
You can’t eat. You can’t sleep. You feel this pit in your gut 24 hours a day. You just know she’s with him. You are driving by his place, her place, her work… This will fucking kill you. Sure as shit.You don’t want to be that guy.
No friend zone for you…
“I’m too fat! Women only like guys with big muscles! I might as well not even try.” Maybe that sounds familiar – at the very least you can identify with something similar. When we think thoughts like these, we are creating feelings of shame and self-pity. We make ourselves out to be victims, as if we have no control over our lives.
You know the type – guys who define themselves by whether or not they are “in a relationship.” Guys who don’t feel complete in and of themselves without a girlfriend or hostage constantly with them to make them feel good.
I like to engage her in rating some of the “outfits” in the room. “Hey… what’s up with that guy’s hat? Did he still it from his grandpa?” And so on – women love to give their opinion
How many times have you seen a hot chick with some a-hole? How many times do you hear her complaining about the jerk she’s dating?
Sure, she complains, but she still sleeps with him.
…don’t listen to anybody that tries to convince you that texting is not here to stay in the dating world – I don’t care how far your grandpa had to walk to your grandma’s house to talk to her.
Well, on paper this looks good. And in reality, it’s a one-way-ticket to a nightmare. Let me break it all down for you.
Everyday when I leave the house, talk to my students, or sit down in the MML offices, I learn something new. Every interaction with every woman adds to my experience, expertise and knowledge. And I still feel like I did 10 or 12 years ago when I first started out. Some days, it seems like I don’t know anything at all – and nothing I know is any good at all. We all have days like that. In fact – I know there are two kinds of guys reading this newsletter right now.
Push/pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you…and then emotionally pull her back in. Each push creates an emotional space for each pull.
If you had the answer – wouldn’t you do it? If you knew what women wanted, wouldn’t you give it to them? You’re probably saying, yes – I would.
Women are genetically programmed to respond to a certain type of man – period. They can’t help it. They just do it. Every time. I know. I’m that guy. I’ve been there – done that – and I know. So let me pull it all together for you. Yes, you can learn from guys who have the knowledge, and save yourself a ton of pain and frustration.
Getting good with women is important. It is, perhaps, the most life-altering thing you can do for yourself. In order to truly get great with girls, you will make yourself into a better man than you ever envisioned you could be before you began the journey.
If I’ve just met a woman, and I casually drop into the conversation, “I’m not really looking to settle down right now or have a girlfriend, but I could see myself doing that with the right woman. ” – what happens?
When friends and family see you treating other as equals and with respect, they will see there is a whole lot more to your relationship than a bunch of clichés. A common fear amongst a man dating a younger woman is that she will leave him for someone younger. Bullshit.
Used properly – the text message is a surprisingly versatile and powerful tool in the arsenal of any man who’s looking for dates.
You and I both know that 99% of men (statistic made up) have ZERO idea what to text to a woman once they have her number. Heaven forbid they call her…
There was something between you two the night you met – you are thinking about her, she gave you her number, you were having a great time, the liquor was flowing…it’s a regular romantic comedy.
THAT feeling is what you want to keep going – and the window to do that is small.
That is just one of many ways to properly get a phone number and when and how to “ask” for it. If for some reason she or you stumble while you have your phone in-hand, just say, “Ok – gimme your number.” Don’t ask – tell.