Women Are Instinctively Attracted to Alphas
When you let the real Alpha inside you come out – Instead of having to approach and chase women, women will approach and chase you.
That’s what life is like when you are living the Alpha Lifestyle.
You’ve seen men who are like this. Guys that seem to have all the women they want, and never seem to have to work at it.
If you’ve ever thought, “What’s that guy got that I haven’t got?” - you may be surprised by the answer.
The truth is, he isn’t very different from you at all.
That’s because the difference between the Alpha Male and the Beta Male isn’t very much at all. But the differences in the results and successes you will have in your life is huge. The little difference makes all the difference.
You see - I believe that all men on this planet were born Alpha Males.
But unfortunately - not all men realize it, or live up to their potential.
And it’s sad, really, because like I said - there isn’t much to making the transformation from Beta to Alpha at all.
And those little differences - the little extra effort it takes - that’s what we teach here at the Modern Male Lifestyle.
Sure - we have tons of great material on Picking Up Women, How to Talk to Women, and all of the other subjects and techniques men are interested in and spend hours on the internet trying to find.
And while you can find all of that here, and elsewhere, none of it will do you any good without the Alpha Attitude.
In fact - without the attitude, nothing works.
For example - if I give a man who is shy, introverted, and not confident a list of “sure fire” things to say to a woman, how well do you think he will do?
If you’re guessing not well at all - you’re right. Because you probably can see already from the description of this man that he will be coming from a position and attitude of weakness. And no matter what he says, it’s not going to matter.
To make all of your “lines” matter - all you really need to do is make the transformation to Alpha Male.
There are lots of little differences between beta and Alpha men - and they all add up to a huge difference in your life, whether it be in your career, your lifestyle or your relationships with women.
Women are instinctively attracted to the Alpha Male - and when you present yourself as Alpha, they are automatically attracted to YOU.
You can read about some of the differences between betas and Alphas in our dating tips articles.
Here’s just a few examples of the differences between Alpha and Beta Men:
Beta Male Vs. Alpha Male
Beta Male: Makes Excuses. Every time there’s something he can’t do, he has an excuse, and feels like he needs to explain it to those around him.
Alpha Male: Never puts the blame on someone else. He always faces his obstacles head on regardless of the odds of success. He never complains about problems, but aggressively works to find solutions to them. If there is something he doesn’t want to do - as opposed to can’t do - he offers no explanation.
“Roller coasters? Nah, thats’ not me. Let’s do something cool instead”.
Tip: Be on the lookout for the phrase: “I can’t do this because…”
As an Alpha - you don’t make excuses. Not only to other people, but especially yourself. When there is blame to go around - blame yourself for your failures. Why? Because you are acknowledging that YOU have the POWER - if you are the reason something is not being done, then you have the power to fix it. The mindset that evolves is that YOU control not only your shortcomings, but your successes.
Beta Male: Needs affirmation from others. Is obssessed with how others think of him.
Alpha Male: Doesn’t give a sh*t what others think. This makes him very attractive. Simply be confident about how others perceive you. You will act accordingly. Anyone who looks down on you is most likely jealous, and also not worth your time. You do not have time for people who are counter-productive to your self-improvement.
Beta Male: Talks fast, always seems to be nervous or in a rush.
Alpha Male: Talks slowly, and in deeper tones. His movements are smooth. Translation: You are in control of your life.
Tip: Before you walk in anywhere - catch yourself. Slow down - catch your breath and then make it look like you are walking through water. As stated earlier, begin to create an image of smoothness and you will naturally start to become smoother.
Beta Male: Lives life by the day not really knowing what he wants. Will waste time on the couch, rather than doing something productive. He is lazy and passive.
Alpha Male: Lives life passionately. He has goals - and is focused on his goals and dreams and tears down any barriers in-between.
Tip: You MUST find a goal you want to achieve, or create one. Even if it’s simply to get better with women. Have something that when those “lay on the couch” moments present themselves, you can say, “I will do SOMETHING to work toward my goal of ________ instead.”
Beta Male: Gives up when he fails. Sees no point in trying and is fearful of facing failure again.
Alpha Male: Failing at anything is only a mistake if you do not learn from it. Repeating failed behavior is insane - learning from failed behavior and trying something new is Alpha.
Failure is only a minor setback to you. You can look forward to failure because first of all, you are moving forward by trying something new - and second, the sooner you can learn from his mistakes and succeed.
Tip: If what you are doing (like, with women for example) isn’t working, you must be open to try something new. This always feeds your adventurous side - something women love.
Beta Male: Uses the word, “sorry” a lot - even when it doesn’t belong in the conversation. He apologizes to others because he feels he might have offended them somehow.
Alpha Male: Wil not apologize for his desires and beliefs. Alphas do apologize, but only when they truly believe theyshould - NOT to try and make others feel better.
Beta male: Believe it or not - he has a big ego. But it backfires on him because he is too sensitive and insecure regarding everyone’s opinion of him. So he constantly is trying to prove himself by qualifying - or stating his qualifications.
Alpha Male: Never feels like he must prove himself. His ego is his ally. Here is the truth: Big egos are a result of low-esteem, lack of control over emotion, and too many female feelings. A man who is truly confident in himself never needs to lash out at someone who insulted his ego.
Beta Male: Always searching for approval and attention.
Alpha Male: Does not seek attention - and therefore always gets it. More on that in my audio training. But know that you can always be the most powerful presence in any room or situation. Why? People need to be led. That’s why leaders are few, followers are many.
Tip - Don’t feel the need to entertain a room full of women with displays of this and that. Betas are often clamoring for attention yet can never get enough - and Alphas never want attention yet get too much. In a room with a bunch of beta males and a bunch of girls you will notice how the girls respond to the Alpha. He’s cool and laid back - the girls all turn their heads to him. The beta needs to constantly entertain them.
Beta Male: Will never admit to his faults and mistakes.
Alpha Male: Is not afraid to face his faults and overcome his failures. Admission is the first step to solving a personal setback or problem.
Beta Male: Gets Jealous really easily when he sees his girl talking or flirting with another guy.
Alpha Male: Is supremely confident in his ability and status. If his girlfriend is talking to other guys, he goes to talk with other girls. He laughs at the thought of his girlfriend choosing another guy over him.
Tip: If “she” is talking to another guy, or obviously trying to get your dander up - simply tell her and the guy, “You guys would make an great couple!” And then go talk to some women.
Beta Male: Easily blows his stack. He loses his temper when someone else criticizes him or when a girl disrespects him.
Alpha Male: Is a complete picture of cool. He never loses his composure. If something upsets him, he shows his disapproval of it without getting mad or whining.
Tip: If she tries to get you into a fight, simply leave. Don’t react emotionally. It’s on her, and she has no control over you or your mood.
There is much more on this subject in our Dating Tips Articles on this website - those are just a few examples. And there is infinitely more about how YOU can make the transformation to Alpha Male in my Alpha audio programs, too.
A good place to start is recognizing what beta behavior is - and eliminating that from your life.
And while you can “act” Alpha - another great place to start - what’s most effective is actually becoming Alpha.
Thinking, Acting and living like an Alpha Male.
The Modern Male Lifestyle has put together over 5 hours of Audio Training explaining everything you need to know and do now to make the transformation.
Our programs The Alpha Life Volume 1 and the Alpha Life Volume 2 have helped 1000’s of men get their Alpha Details in check and transformed their lives for the better.
These Audio Programs will change your life.
The training is full of exact mindset and skills that you can use right away on your journey to becoming the Alpha Male women love. It’s more than just a buzz word - it’s a way of life. The Alpha Life. And we go way beyond Alpha with this one.
What you learn here with this program you will take with you the rest of your life.
The term “Alpha Male” has come to mean many things these days.
Some would have you believe it’s some kind of jerk, or meat head. A guy that has to always be aggressive and challenge everyone he meets.
And the truth is - that’s a classic definition of a “Beta Male” - and a true sign of insecurity.
Two things are for sure:
1. An Alpha Male doesn’t need to be an aggressive meat-head. He already knows he’s the shit without having to prove himself.
2. Women instinctively love a man who displays the Alpha behavior and characteristics.
Take it to the bank.
When I say “instinctively” I mean they simply can’t help it. It’s in their blood - their DNA and is the product of 100’s of thousands of years of evolution.
Now, not every man is an Alpha.If it seems like 5% of men are sleeping with 95% of the women, it’s because they are.
In fact - the majority of men in this day and age are Beta. Not everyone is even aware that there is such a thing. But there is. And the good news is: Once you know the difference, being Alpha can be learned.
See this Alpha Audio Book Package to get started.