Three Keys to Approaching Women

by | Apr 1, 2016 | Exclusive Tips Articles |

A lot of men these days have trouble approaching women. This can be for a number of reasons, and every man is different. While there is no one method for success with any women, there are certain methods which you can adopt. If you are wondering how to be a little luckier with the women you approach, then this might be for you.

The truth is, most of the game is down to a few key secrets. If you have read my other posts, you know that a huge part of it is the mindset you adopt before you go into the situation.

However, achieving that mindset readily and easily can be tough for some guys. To help you get there, I’ve put together this short post. Here are the main things you need to be doing to feel good when you approach her.


Like anything else in life, your success here is reliant upon you taking some time to prepare. If you don’t prepare, then you are more likely to fail. It’s simple when you think about it. Preparation means you have taken all possibilities into consideration.

If you have taken everything into consideration, you can be confident in the fact that you will succeed. And that is the confidence you need to see you through the approach. Prepare in your mind what you are going to say and how you are going to say it. This will put you in good stead.

However, be careful not to overdo it. If you are too prepared, you will come across as artificial - and nothing turns a woman off faster.

Look The Part

Despite what you may have heard elsewhere, women are interested in what you look like just as much as men are interested in what women look like.

If you are planning to approach a woman, you need to look the part. There’s really no getting around this. What exactly to wear depends, of course, on the situation at hand. Ultimately, you’re looking to fit in perfectly with the setting. And to achieve that, you need a diverse wardrobe.

Consider spending some time fitting out your wardrobe with a wide range of essentials. Look to for inspiration. Wearing the right clothes gives you that boost of confidence to get you through - and get the woman.

Walk Tall

Confidence is the number one key to success with women. Learning how to be confident can be the work of a lifetime. The good news there is: there is always room for improvement.

As long as you approach her with confidence, you are unlikely to fail. Walk tall, smile broadly and look her directly in the eyes. These three things make a huge difference to how you come across. Believe me, it works. Next time you are struggling, just straighten up and smile directly at her.

As long as your confidence is genuine and comes from the right place, it will hit all the right notes. If there is anything artificial about it, it might not. So work on feeling at home in yourself first. And then present that to the woman you are approaching. She’ll be yours in no time.


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J.D. Dallas at Modern Male has changed the way I think - for the better.

I was the classic push-over, nice guy - constantly getting into the friend zone and being totally frustrated!

It was a small change - something clicked.

As I write this, I have 3 girlfriends - and they ALL know about each other.

JD knows his stuff!

Parker J.

MML Student