Impressing On First Date – Quick Tips

by | Jul 8, 2016 | Exclusive Tips Articles |

african-american-couple-1For many men, knowing how to impress someone on a first date can be a mystery. It’s hard to know where to start and what to do.

That’s why many men complicate the issue, but that doesn’t have to be the case. By keeping it simple and doing the important things right, the date can be a real success. So, here’s how to impress on that first date in a few simple steps.

Relax

The first thing you need to do is relax. You can’t have a good time or impress someone if you are too nervous to be yourself.

Keep things in perspective and remember that this is only one date. If it doesn’t work out, then it’s not the end of the world. And it will be much more likely to turn out well if you take it easy and relax.

People find it much easier to get on with and relate to people who are relaxed and at ease. So, it will help the person you’re on the date with too.

 

Be Presentable

You also want to look presentable. Being yourself and relaxing doesn’t mean you don’t have to put some effort into the way you look.

Young couple drink coffee at italian café

Young couple drink coffee at italian café

Wear something that is suitable for the occasion and the kind of date you’re going on. First impressions are important. So, if you turn up looking like you just crawled out of bed, then you won’t be sending off the right kinds of signals. Clean yourself up, wear the right clothes and make sure you smell good too. All these things matter.

Listen More

One of the fatal mistakes of dating is talking too much. That’s because when you’re talking about yourself too much, you are not giving the other person the chance to talk. Many people talk constantly when they’re nervous, so it’s not surprising that this happens on dates.

If you stay calm, you will be able to talk a little less and listen more. There has to be a dialogue between the two of you, rather than one person constantly talking and the other saying not much at all.

Do Something Fun

It’s up to you to make plans for what you’re going to do on the date. So, make sure that you do something fun. Doing something fun doesn’t have to mean doing something extravagant that costs lots of money though.

You can make a fun evening out of going to the pub, having a few drinks and playing on the boxer machines. Just make sure that you do something that the two of you can enjoy, whether it’s something big or something very simple.

Smile and Be Positive

Finally, you should ensure that you smile and be positive. These simple things make a big difference when you’re on a date. If you’re smiling, it shows that you’re a happy and positive person.

That’s what people want to see. Don’t let the nerves get the better of you because you don’t smile so much when you’re nervous about something.


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