The Priming Date

What’s the best place to take a woman on a date?

Personally, I like to take them to my place…but that’s not always an option.

When you’ve just met a woman - before you are “dating” her - most men want to take her “out.”

They get the phone number, make the call, and take them to dinner.

Instead of this traditional, and boring and ineffective, tactic - do what I teach in the Perfect Date audio Program.

Tell her to meet you somewhere - like a coffee shop or quite bar - for a quick beverage.

Keep this in mind: You run your “game” on a woman, get her number and want to get her to go out with you….but she’s probably not ready for “all that” yet.

In fact - she’ll be really put off (or not show up at all) if you over-do it.

So instead of a traditional “date” night - you need to turn the tables on her. Traditional dates come off as YOU trying to please and impress HER.

Boom - you just gave HER all the power.

But if you suggest to her that you meet - on a non-date night and time (like Sunday at 2pm) for “a cup of java and some stimulating conversation” you start to give off the impression the YOU are evaluating HER.

You see - there’s very little pressure associated with a public place, on a non-date day, for 1/2 hour to have coffee - just to see if you like each other.

If it goes poorly - nobody is out much time or money, or is trapped in long-date and ride home scenario.

It’s much more appealing to a woman - and she’s more likely to accept.

Besides that - you should be evaluating your women anyway.

There’s more about how to have the perfect “priming date” - how to handle the phone call, things to talk about, etc., in The Perfect Date Volume One Audio Program.

Now - for those of you already past that point - and you actually do want to treat a new woman to dinner somewhere, let me suggest the following.

If you can’t have her over for a dinner you prepare, or order in (both are ideal) then by all means take her somewhere.

But nothing pretentious or too big and fancy. Nothing you haven’t done in a million years, otherwise the situation turns too foreign and weird even for you, and chances of relaxing, and having a nice conversation get killed pretty much… it turns awkward.

Go somewhere nice but where you don’t feel completely out of touch.

Still clueless? go to Olive Garden or any other franchise (franchises are not fancy and everyone is familiar with it) that way you make the night about you-her and not the place.

White table clothes, carriage rides and all that are way out of line.

Learning how to have a good “priming date” fast-forwards your ability to get her back to your place for date number two - and beyond.

I have had dozens of women meet me for a cup of joe at the SAME PLACE all the time. I’m comfortable there, and I can operate.

Find your place.

The best part of a 1/2 hour priming date is, not only does it cost you the price of a cup of coffee - but you can transition it into several “instant dates” if you like her.

This strategy is all laid out for you in the Perfect Date Audio program. It’s designed to get you to that “magic 3rd date feeling” quickly.  And it works.

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The Perfect Date Series
Written by JD Dallas/Maya Jordan
Spoken by JD Dallas/Maya Jordan

Takes you from phone number to your couch

Ever wonder how to NOT pay for dates, and have women love it?

Or on the flip-side - have you every paid for an entire evening out with a woman, only to never see her again?

This is the one everyone’s been waiting for.

J.D. and the men he has taught have dated 100’s of women using the proven methods and tactics in this effective audio series: The Perfect Date. In this 3-hour audio you will learn a perfect system for not paying for boring, go-nowhere dates and how to have women meeting you where and when you say.

Dating coach and mega-hottie Maya teams up with J.D. to take you from phone number to your couch - and detail every step in between including the mindsets that make it all work. You will get the female perspective on how women view approaches, giving up phone numbers, meeting men for dates and more.

Most of dating and seduction is counter-intuitive, so we sort it out for you and walk you through the male and female perspective on getting numbers, what to say on those phone calls, how to set up perfect “priming” dates, and fast-forwarding the feelings that come from that “magic third date” without spending a dime!

Shelling out money for dates is not how to get women to like you.

How many times have you taken a woman to dinner, or a movie, bought flowers and other gifts and simply ended up with paying the bill and not much else? Worse - have you shelled out your hard-earned money for that first, second and third date only to have her put you in the friend zone?

Well that stops now.

In this devastatingly effective and proven series you’ll learn:

  • How to not pay for dates - and why you shouldn’t
  • How to make the right first phone call
  • Get her feeling like she’s known you forever
  • Fast-forward to comfort and familiarity
  • Effective “on the couch” techniques
  • Great ideas for dates
  • How to evaluate her on a date
  • The priming date - and how it always works
  • The right - and wrong - things to talk about on a date
  • How to get physical with her right away
  • Tons of tips and tricks for successful dating
  • Advanced Techniques for screening your women
  • The psychology behind getting phone numbers - and what to do with them
  • Setting up a system for dating
  • Getting her over to your house - it’s easier than you think
  • Follow up calls
  • Great new ways to look at dating and dates
  • And everything from getting her number to getting her on your couch


We think you can take if from there…and if not there is the Perfect Date Volume 2: the Sex Tapes. Everything you need to know about the bedroom. Super, secret dating techniques you won’t find anywhere else.

It doesn’t take much to show her - and every women - that you are the man, and you are in charge. The simplest things can make a huge difference in whether or not you are getting the women you want, and keeping them for as long as you want.

There’s nothing complicated about this CD set and the simple to follow dialogue and instructions from the Master J.D. and Modern Male Lifestyle dating coach the BadGirl are the best dating advice we’ve ever come up with.

The Modern Male Lifestyle is proud to present, The Perfect Date Series - Audio One

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