I’m going to share with you some Approach technique and Mindset that most men never think of or understand.
Start chatting her up…
In short – there are a myriad of ways to be introduced to new people – and the notion of “you HAVE to go to your friend’s damned bar-b-que” can actually be a pleasant experience if you look at it as a chance to meet that someone special.
Why? Because this will drop his perceived value to the group – and cause him to qualify himself to try and raise it back up (another classic beta trait: qualifying oneself).
A woman’s defenses are up at a bar or party. It can be done – but it’s a lot easier to approach her in a place where she is relaxed and receptive to meeting you. It’s more fun and exciting for her.
One of the absolute worst places to try and meet women is in a bar, or a club. And yet that seems to be the go-to strategy a majority of men take. Perhaps it’s because they have access to that shot of liquid courage at the bar.