How to Talk to Women

How to Talk to Women

You know, almost every man I work with has a similar type of question. And usually it boils down to, “I’d like to talk to her…I just don’t know what to say.”

The BIG Problem With Being a “Nice Guy”

The BIG Problem With Being a “Nice Guy”

How many times have you seen a hot chick with some a-hole? How many times do you hear her complaining about the jerk she’s dating?
Sure, she complains, but she still sleeps with him.

The Lost Art of Manly Men

The Lost Art of Manly Men

Gents, I’m telling you now – masculinity has become a cynical marketing campaign designed to sell us oversize automobiles and heart-stopping triple bacon cheeseburgers. And we fall for it.

Valentine’s Day Tips

Valentine’s Day Tips

Because women absolutely don’t respect a man who they can boss around. Even if it is through use of one of their classic manipulation tactics.

Do You Need a Dating Coach?

Do You Need a Dating Coach?

Everyday when I leave the house, talk to my students, or sit down in the MML offices, I learn something new. Every interaction with every woman adds to my experience, expertise and knowledge. And I still feel like I did 10 or 12 years ago when I first started out. Some days, it seems like I don’t know anything at all – and nothing I know is any good at all. We all have days like that. In fact – I know there are two kinds of guys reading this newsletter right now.

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

So, anyway, they call me and they want to know how to get their ex back. And they are thinking that I’ll talk to them for 5 or 6 minutes and give them my 3 best lines and their problem will be solved.

So You Want To Date an Exotic Dancer?

So You Want To Date an Exotic Dancer?

But those guys who get “lost” in the fantasy start to think that they can win these women over. How? By being their friend, their regular customer, a big tipper, a big complimenter and ultimately a big sucker.

What To Do If You Think She’s Cheating

What To Do If You Think She’s Cheating

You can’t eat. You can’t sleep. You feel this pit in your gut 24 hours a day. You just know she’s with him. You are driving by his place, her place, her work… This will fucking kill you. Sure as shit

What is the Push Pull Technique?

What is the Push Pull Technique?

Push/pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you…and then emotionally pull her back in. Each push creates an emotional space for each pull.

What do women want?

What do women want?

If you had the answer – wouldn’t you do it? If you knew what women wanted, wouldn’t you give it to them? You’re probably saying, yes – I would.

Using Her Instincts to Build Attraction

Using Her Instincts to Build Attraction

And it has very very little to do with how a man looks. Sure, looks are important. In fact, every little detail of your life is what adds up to whether or not this or that woman is attracted to you.

Can You Master Handling Your Women?

Can You Master Handling Your Women?

Women are genetically programmed to respond to a certain type of man – period. They can’t help it. They just do it. Every time. I know. I’m that guy. I’ve been there – done that – and I know. So let me pull it all together for you. Yes, you can learn from guys who have the knowledge, and save yourself a ton of pain and frustration.

Alpha Male vs. Beta Male Traits

Alpha Male vs. Beta Male Traits

This stuff is good to have on hand and start to learn, regardless. Why? Because thoughts precede actions. That’s right. Knowing what an alpha would do, think or say is important to knowing how to act.

Stay Out of the “Friend Zone”

Stay Out of the “Friend Zone”

Hello my friends. Please feel free to drop a comment if you enjoy what you read, and feel free to share it with a friend.  jd@modernmalelifestyle.com All right – how many guys have had a woman they really really wanted and somehow they ended up as pals with her instead? Or you had a woman that was all over you at the beginning, but somewhere along the line it fizzled out? Raise your hand if you’ve been there. And if you’ve ever heard the words… “Let’s just be friends” or, “I’d like us to just be friends”, or even, “I don’t see you in that way…” or any variation of that crap. I know some of you have even heard it when you were trying to make your move, or worse, when you started to tell her your “feelings” for her… Ouch. Now, with some women, you’ll want to be just friends. But know that this means – to her - strictly as her “friend”. This also means no heavy touching, kissing, or anything physically intimate. When a woman goes into her friends speech, she’ll give you all kinds of bullcrap reasons – and don’t buy any of the common excuses when you hear them. “I have too much work nowadays”, “I need some time to think things over,” “I don’t want to ruin our friendship”. What she really means is: “I am no longer attracted in you” “I never was attracted to you” “You just don’t turn me on”. And of course what that all means is, “hands off me now.” When her interest level has died, it’s hard to revive. Unless you...
Alpha Male Syndrome

Alpha Male Syndrome

Watch an alpha male in a group. How do you know who he is? He is centrally positioned in the group, everyone’s body language faces him and is positive towards him.

A New Opener – Have You Tried This One?

A New Opener – Have You Tried This One?

Getting good with women is important. It is, perhaps, the most life-altering thing you can do for yourself. In order to truly get great with girls, you will make yourself into a better man than you ever envisioned you could be before you began the journey.

What to Do if You’re Dating More than One Woman

What to Do if You’re Dating More than One Woman

If I’ve just met a woman, and I casually drop into the conversation, “I’m not really looking to settle down right now or have a girlfriend, but I could see myself doing that with the right woman. ” – what happens?

Are You Dating a Younger Woman?

Are You Dating a Younger Woman?

When friends and family see you treating other as equals and with respect, they will see there is a whole lot more to your relationship than a bunch of clichés. A common fear amongst a man dating a younger woman is that she will leave him for someone younger. Bullshit.

Master the Art ot Texting Part 2

Master the Art ot Texting Part 2

You and I both know that 99% of men (statistic made up) have ZERO idea what to text to a woman once they have her number. Heaven forbid they call her…

Master the Art of Texting Part 1

Master the Art of Texting Part 1

There was something between you two the night you met – you are thinking about her, she gave you her number, you were having a great time, the liquor was flowing…it’s a regular romantic comedy.
THAT feeling is what you want to keep going – and the window to do that is small.

The Do’s and Don’ts of Getting Her Number

The Do’s and Don’ts of Getting Her Number

That is just one of many ways to properly get a phone number and when and how to “ask” for it. If for some reason she or you stumble while you have your phone in-hand, just say, “Ok – gimme your number.” Don’t ask – tell.